Ok guys. This one caught my attention because it is JUST what is going on with me. Mr Piney has been to clubs and such. I have only been in a 6 way with people I already knew.(he was there with someone else) Now, as we approach OUR first club together, Iam afraid this will happen to us. Meaning, since we ARE new we want to go slow and see how it is. Remember, I have never been to one. Our plans for the first visit is just to watch and get aquainted with some of the people there. (if something else feels right then we are ok with that too)I have heard that swingers dont like watchers all the time, and I also understand that we don't just walk in without an invite unless it is the group room.
So, i am very afraid that will happen. (people not liking us watching). I am shy to some degree. If I feel like people don't like ,me I leave. If I know they do i'm great and the life of the party alot of the time. I'm scared that this topic will taint my first club expierence.
Those statistics do seem pretty high. Thanks for listening (reading)
Ms Piney