Re: Do you kiss and how passionately? We used to believe in the 'no-kissing' rule, too. Then we realized that whether or not we became too emotionally close to our swing partners had nothing to do with any given physical act. It was a matter of choice. You have to decide whether or not you are receptive to or giving off emotional vibes. If you have no interest in starting another relationship, why should kissing be any different than any other sex act?
Besides, the no-kissing rule was no fun. Kissing is extremely intimate; that's why we like it! Kissing involves all 5 senses. You see the way her lips are full and ripe. You feel his breath on your cheek, and you hear her breathing become deeper and fuller as she becomes excited. You feel the exact moment your lips touch his. The lips are exquisitely sensitive under normal circumstances, but with the increase in blood flow during arousal, they are even more so. And she tastes like cinnamon, mint, or merlot. And you can sense (sort of like smell, but not quite) the unscented perfume of pheromones rising from the face, neck and body. Amazing. Pheromones apparently do not have a scent, but we can sense them with a specialized organ in the nose. They just 'smell' like good hot sex.
I mean, just look at RoxysBayou's avatar! How hot is that?! My 2 cents: sex without kissing isn't nearly as much fun.
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