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biblonde · 07-15-2005, 05:51 PM

We enjoy kissing. Never understood how some could think it to intimate?? We look at sex this way....when you first start dating the first thing you do is kiss then it moves onto feeling and touching. Then sex and then oral is the most intimate thing you could do. And really if you look at sex as a sport and not making love then we think it should be all of the above!! Sex isnt the way I show my hubby how much I love him and I certainly dont feel the same way about others that I have sex with as I do hubby. YES I enjoy them alot (well most of the time!) but never will any of them be able to do to me what hubby can. Kissing is just a warm up to us and I love watching him kiss others so there is a bonus in it for me...he he he. We do see a couple that wont kiss and I somtimes find it hard to not kiss and catch myself forgetting and have to opoligize once in a while. They understand and dont get upset if we slip up which is great but not all "no kissing" couples feel that way. I have to say if we are going to play we will have to like you an awful lot if you have to no kissing rule. but that is just my 2 cents for the day!!

07-15-2005, 05:51 PM	#4 (permalink)
biblonde Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2003 Posts: 1,020 Location: sacramento Status: couple SLS Name:curious1918	Re: Do you kiss and how passionately? We enjoy kissing. Never understood how some could think it to intimate?? We look at sex this way....when you first start dating the first thing you do is kiss then it moves onto feeling and touching. Then sex and then oral is the most intimate thing you could do. And really if you look at sex as a sport and not making love then we think it should be all of the above!! Sex isnt the way I show my hubby how much I love him and I certainly dont feel the same way about others that I have sex with as I do hubby. YES I enjoy them alot (well most of the time!) but never will any of them be able to do to me what hubby can. Kissing is just a warm up to us and I love watching him kiss others so there is a bonus in it for me...he he he. We do see a couple that wont kiss and I somtimes find it hard to not kiss and catch myself forgetting and have to opoligize once in a while. They understand and dont get upset if we slip up which is great but not all "no kissing" couples feel that way. I have to say if we are going to play we will have to like you an awful lot if you have to no kissing rule. but that is just my 2 cents for the day!!