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Old 07-15-2005, 04:52 PM   #15 (permalink)
cracker60479
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Default Re: Men swingers and bisexuality

I find this a most interesting thread. I am a bi male and the fact that 80% of the males in this poll say they would have bi sex, and the knowledge that bi activities between females is commonly accepted leads me to believe we are all naturally born bi sexual. I was totally straight for 50 years when I had a dream that I went to a nearby nude beach in Florida and a guy walked up to where I was setting and after a few words, he took hold of my head and stuck his cock in my mouth. I suddenly awoke and felt anger that the dream had ended before I could imagine what it felt like in my mouth. I was very aroused and began masturbating motivated by thoughts of sucking a cock. I was surprised and confused because I was straight and had never even thought about sucking a guy. That seemed the key idea, I had never thought about it, and when I did, it seemed very hot. This seems to support the poll, that if a guy found himself in situation of doing bi or not, he would choose to participate.
What surprises me is the response of the wives who said they would enjoy watching their husband having bi sex. My wife knows I had bi experiences before we met and seems perfectly ok with it. I tend to wonder how a wife could watch her husband suck another male and not change the way she viewed his masculinity. As a bi, I do not like men, not attracted to men, I am not gay, I dont want it reciprocated, I dont want to kiss or hug or cuddle or do anal on him. My only interest is in doing oral sex on him and with the right guy would allow him to fuck me anally. But I feel my wife would have less respect for me and my masculinity if she saw this happening.
I wish I could see a poll in which wives would answer if watching their husbands have bi sex would be a turn-on or a turn-off. And secondly a poll asking the men who are bi, how many would suck only, how many would only want to be sucked and how many would want both, and the same for anal, would you give, receive or both? And would kiss, cuddle and hug be part of your activity? There seems to be a wide variety of things some bi males are up for and another bi is not into. I consider my bi role as the female half and my partner as the male half, all male who doesnt suck, kiss or cuddle men, just wants his cock sucked. This brings up just one more question, do guys who only want to be sucked want it sucked by another male specifically, or do they care who does it for them as long as it feels good and they get off? Even though I play the bi role as female, I never think of myself in a feminine way, I am totally 100% masculine, looking and acting at all times. Whats up with this?
This seems enough for a whole new thread but it seems to fit into this one as a subject.
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