NorthIndyCouple suggested:
Maybe the watchers are actually waiting for something?
This makes sense to us. We're not clubbers, swing or vanilla, and have only been to one. If we did go back, it's not likely we'd play there. It is possible we might meet someone and go somewhere else, probably at a later date. We think our house is an ideal place to play. We just have to make sure the teenagers will be away.
Alura