[NakedInSeattle]

I have been amazed at the high percentage (don't think it's as high as 75%) of couples that come to a swing club and just watch the dancing, turn down invitations to dance, and just generally act like "lookie loos." I think they just get a kick out of being on the brink of doing something naughty but never can get past their hang-ups. The funny thing is it's not just a one-time thing. They return to do it.

On a cruise recently, the swingers found a way to link up beforehand on an internet group. All members of the group professed to be experienced swingers. When it came to meeting on the ship, only about 20% of them showed up. What the others got out of "almost doing it" I don't know. Does it just add to their fantasy lives?

Maybe some of our more learned and experienced members here can add some understanding to this behavior.