Quote:
|
Originally Posted by VegasLee One thing we noticed is that the ones of us that are still together are "old school". Swinging is about sex to us. We are not in it to make new life long friends or build some sort of relationship. (dinners, dancing, bar-b-q's, bowling) Sex. If we become friends then great but we don't set out looking for anything more then some fun with other consenting adults. The rest of the group where the "relationship builders." Guess maybe they worked so hard at building relationships with others they forgot to take care of their own.
. |
We are somewhere in the middle of the two extremes. We go into it looking for just sex...
..but don't mind at all if it evolves into a friendship. We have made some good friends (one of them an unmarried couple) but we are all on the same page about several things. 1. we are not exclusive with anyone and 2. our marriage comes first, the minute there is any drama or head games we are done with them. It seems to work for us.