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Originally Posted by VegasLee One thing we noticed is that the ones of us that are still together are "old school". Swinging is about sex to us. We are not in it to make new life long friends or build some sort of relationship. (dinners, dancing, bar-b-q's, bowling) Sex. If we become friends then great but we don't set out looking for anything more then some fun with other consenting adults. The rest of the group where the "relationship builders." Guess maybe they worked so hard at building relationships with others they forgot to take care of their own. |
A huge gem of "been there, done that" wisdom that a lot of "we want a friendship first" people should heed! Thanks Lee.