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Old 07-13-2005, 10:14 PM   #17 (permalink)
BradAndJanet
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Originally Posted by twoplayful2
... It does seem quite strange though that swingers would give a damn at all about another couple being married or just in a long-term relationship. A couple that's been together several years and is swinging is immoral or something like that if they're not married?
It's not a moral thing, it's just that people think the potential for drama is higher if they swing with people who are not committed to each other. It's the same as with singles; you have to consider that since they're not committed to anyone else, they might become attached to you or your spouse.

We wouldn't say no out of hand, but it's something we pay attention to.

-B
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