Thanks, Julie … that’s kind of what I was sort of planning. I got the hotel room for US just in case a swing-fest didn’t work out, though he has indicated that IS what he wants. He wants to have an outright wild and crazy night to totally blow him away while turning 40!!!
I have several swinger friends that I hope will come, but I don’t want to bore them (they are all relatively new friends) with a simple hotel get-together, because let’s face it, it can’t be TOO raucous in the hotel room or we could get kicked out!
I am thinking of maybe upgrading to a suite at the hotel, having everyone meet at the hotel and let hubby decide whether he wants to keep the party there or go to a club.
I just feel so limited not being able to truly host a party at my home (because of the kids).
