***Julie, please move this if it belongs more appropriately in a different topic area.***
My wonderful husband turns 40 this Saturday. He is not happy about this,

so I am trying to plan a really great, night to remember, blow-out kind of party.
We have our kids this month, so we cannot have a party at our house. I did get a hotel room, either for the two of us, or the bunch of us, however it turns out.

But I cannot originate and maintain a party like this in a hotel.
So, I am looking for ideas … off-premise club or on-premise club? Small gathering at the hotel? Any ideas would be greatly appreciated. I realize this is kind of last minute, but we are more spontaneous than we are planners and things just kind of sneak up on us …
HELP