EvilMJ wrote:
...now we are in a pickle becuase it is become apparent that the other hubby and I are not all that compatable in bed.
Have you tried to teach him what you would like him to do, EvilMJ? Mrs. Alura was successful in doing that with one of our long-term husbands. (His wife was quite grateful!)
She was not able to teach another how to carry on a conversation, though.
Mr. Alura