[northindycpl]

If you save up, you can buy a lifetime membership on Swing Lifestyle, which is was less expensive then constantly renewing it. Ours was $99. But it saves you well over $99 the first year.

I personally don't like swapper or aff. Sexy Ads isn't bad.

The other suggestion I had for you that is free, is to search the yahoo groups for swing club/associations in your area. We belong to a few of them for clubs we belong to and not only are there club forums, but they offer chat, photo albums, and ways to meet people on IM. It is completely free with your yahoo account. (which is also free)

If you find a club that you are interested in attending, contact the owners first and see if they will allow you to pay the membership fee, but waive the door fee for the first time. I have heard a lot of them do. Also, most clubs have a cheeper night, usually the first or last weekend of the month. (you will find that out through their group)

Some clubs will let you in free if you bring new-members with you.

Also, if you are handy or have free time, a lot of clubs will waive your door fees if you and your wife are willing to work for them a few nights.