Thank you very much for the advice given me so far.. as it is, it is my Husband that brought up the fact that it was like I was wanting to have a Poly or "Marriage" so to speak... That is NOT what I am wanting at all.. I just want to feel some kind of mutual interests aside from sex, and also mutual attraction. To me at this point, I would rather see a couple maybe 2 or 3 times before anything sexual happens.. after all, there has to be some kind of mental stimulation as well as physical attraction. Yes, you are right, i would LOVE to have another female of the couple be bisexual or straight, makes no diff to me, to do ordinary things with such as shopping, coffee, talking, whatever... and I do not see that as a problem. I am not at all ready to emotionally attach myself to another couple, as I have a lot on my plate now, what with family, health, trying to get my business going, keeping my marriage alive, raising children. And there is NO way I wish to share my husband with another woman for more than a couple of hours at the most. To me, it would be perfect to meet for dinner, go dancing or a club, flirt, and see where it takes us.... but with the understanding that nothing sexual is to happen until after at least the 3rd date....
Hope to get more advice, and thank you again very much!!
Sweetness
