Hey Sweetness - if it makes you feel better, I agree with you. There's nothing wrong, IMHO, with wanting to be friends first.
Seems to me there are a lot of posts on this board and other lifestyle boards about respecting boundaries. Surely "when to jump into bed" is a boundary to be respected, isn't it?
So don't take it personally - if you're with a couple that wants to head straight for the bedroom, then it's obviously not a good match, and if the couple doesn't accept that as a simple difference of personality, then they're not worth your time.
Best wishes, and never let other people make you think there's something wrong with you - your only perogative is to be happy and have fun.
Nova