Fortunately, we don't need to do it daily, Diotima.
The "full treatment" is time consuming. We usually save it for when Mrs. Alura returns from a business trip or when the kids are gone. Weekly "touch-up" can be done much quicker by leaving out the more fun parts.
I can't help you on the "partner" issue, but you might consider enrolling in GGGU when it opens.

See the Gentle Gentalia Grooming thread.
Mr. Alura