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Originally posted by jimcat:
Do we swingers have a higher sense of morality? I'm not so sure. We do have the good fortune of having a spouse to explore the lifestyle with. What would many of us do if the spouse had no interest in swinging?
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I not sure if she had said no to the swinging if I could have long term kept to my no cheating pledge. |
I don't think any of us can really take the moral high ground. Swinger or not. Cheater or not.
Morality, like porn, is based on the "Accepted Community Standards".
At this moment in time, the swinging community views cheaters as a plague. Much like they (non-swingers) view us.
This point could not have been more clear, than it was made today by a friend. A longtime friend cornered Maggie at work, to ask how she could just "let go" of me at a social? She views our attending a social as cheating on each other.
Maggies response: It's all about trust. And, then pointed out, that I (David) was the shy one. And she was more likely to actually find and approve a couple, before I ever got out of my seat
