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Stratecpl · 02-12-2002, 05:41 PM

Teresa said:

"Happy people do not cheat. When you are happy in your relationship its easy to say no without a second thought or regret."

Very true, Teresa! Connie and I have never cheated on each other since we have known each other. I have had numerous opportunities, and so has she. It's the commitment we share that prevents it. True, we swing together. But if one of us one day decides to stop swinging, we will quit swinging together. That's just the way we are. I loved the story about Ted's stay at the hotel. How many times I have had passes made at me, I don't remember. But I usually didn't know it until much later... LOL If I'd known at the time, I still wouldn't have done anything with them. It's flattering that anyone was interested enough to think I was a live one, though. I think we all enjoy the attention that is sometimes afforded us.

What we share in swinging, to me, is better than gold or silver. It's something we share now, to be remembered forever. Hopefully, it will always be with fond memories.

We have close friends who used to cheat on each other. Now they swing together and have a great time, and their marriage is much stronger, too. Who knows?? What works for one, doesn't necessarily work for the next. It's all about personal beliefs and yes, moralities. It's all a series of tests, a part of life.

Ron, Husband of Stratecpl

02-12-2002, 05:41 PM	#10 (permalink)
Stratecpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2000 Posts: 456 Location: TN, USA	Teresa said: "Happy people do not cheat. When you are happy in your relationship its easy to say no without a second thought or regret." Very true, Teresa! Connie and I have never cheated on each other since we have known each other. I have had numerous opportunities, and so has she. It's the commitment we share that prevents it. True, we swing together. But if one of us one day decides to stop swinging, we will quit swinging together. That's just the way we are. I loved the story about Ted's stay at the hotel. How many times I have had passes made at me, I don't remember. But I usually didn't know it until much later... LOL If I'd known at the time, I still wouldn't have done anything with them. It's flattering that anyone was interested enough to think I was a live one, though. I think we all enjoy the attention that is sometimes afforded us. What we share in swinging, to me, is better than gold or silver. It's something we share now, to be remembered forever. Hopefully, it will always be with fond memories. We have close friends who used to cheat on each other. Now they swing together and have a great time, and their marriage is much stronger, too. Who knows?? What works for one, doesn't necessarily work for the next. It's all about personal beliefs and yes, moralities. It's all a series of tests, a part of life. Ron, Husband of Stratecpl __________________ "Well behaved women rarely make history"