I just wasn't interested....his ultimate fantasy is and was MFM...to be honest very few men do anything to me..has always been that way...I had only been with 3 men, one being Mr. Midnight...all relationships lasted a long time...I have analzed why more men don't do it for me...and can come up with no other reason then chemstry...
so when he suggested the first MFM to be with one of my ex's I said yes...because the connection was there...so far as time has went on we have found a few more...when we do for him it is always a good day..
Even though I am open to couples, so far both times have been duds...not on a bad emtional level...just blah...and I am sure thru no fault of their own...
I was the one who ran across the swinger ads/groups on yahoo, which led me to Swing Lifestyle which led me to this board...Mr. Midnight was like *wow* as I pressed thru things...and studied..
once I found out that a friend of mine that I had worked with..<female> went to the local socials..I was ready to go...
and we have went to almost every one...we go with no mindset to hook up...just to party and have a good time...and that has made it easier and more fun for me...i.e. he puts NO pressure on me at all...
So I guess you could say curiousity killed the cat...satisfaction brought her back....
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