John,
I do agree with you there! I have recently received a reply to an ad that we placed, looking for a single guy or a couple. The guy told us in his first email that he really wants to be with another women, but his wife could not find out about it. Since I am a nice person (sometimes too nice!

) I sent him an email back explaining that we do not mess around with married people who cheat on their spouse. We received a very angry email back, stating that since we are swingers we are cheating people as well. I have him now on our email blocklist! lol
A lot of people just don't understand this lifestyle, sad as it is!
Corinne