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When my husband first brought the idea of swinging up my first thought: he had lost his mind, second thought: he is wanting other women and wants me to tell him it is ok and after 18 years of marriage I was shocked. I did agree to listen to what he had to say. He told me it was a big fantasy for him to see me with another man and he had put alot of thought into it. We discussed it for about 6 months, all the good and bad points we could think of and decided to give it a try. He finally found a single man that he thought fit the fantasy and we met with him. The next day it was a complete turn around for us both. He was the one not so sure and I was the one thinking this is for us. I think at that point we both realized how open we had become with each other about everything...he was upset and I still told him how I really felt instead of trying to make him feel better. We worked through all the issues involved and decided to continue. We play with singles and couples with no problems. Our friends and family have noticed how much we have changed around them...we are closer and it shows.
That has always amazed me...how you can be so close to each other and share the things we do. I can I figured in the normal way of thinking the things we do would seperate us in all ways of life but it has been totally opposite from that