[EvilMJ]

The main thing that Mr. EVIL and I try to keep in perspective is that we do this to experience new and different things, it is not about comparison.

We enjoy seeing each other have a good time and at the end of the night if there is something interesting that we have tried with the other partner we often share it so we can try it out on each other. It is not a matter of OMG he was so amazing at this and that..it was..."Wow, I never tried this before, let me show you because I bet we are going to love doing it together."

It is not easy to get over our own self consious issues. I am not a size 6 and it took a little while for me to realize...I am happy the way I am, my hubby loves me for who I am ...and that's why he married me and that is why he comes home with me when it is all said and done.

Once he comes to terms with this, he will have no problems at all.