Re: Size matters.. to him...
I don't see how it's any different from us women comparing ourselves to other women with narrower waists, less cellulite, firmer asses, or bigger boobs. The list could go on to include longer hair, nicer skin, prettier face, better teeth...better whatever! Does Mr. Jeep prefer other women because they are more "physically gifted" in some way? Does he pout and shrug and slump because he has to go home with you? No, he doesn't! So how is this any different?
I guess the argument might be that penis size might have something to do with being able to satisfy you sexually. Size doesn't matter as long as you're in the average size range (less than average and it just means you need to get a little more creative I think). Even after you've had sex with a man who is really well hung, the whole pelvic region is lit up with nerve endings and extra blood flow to the area. It sounds like Mr. Jeep has a pretty good situation: average length with slightly above average girth. As I said in another thread, I'll take girth over length any day!
If you haven't tried it already, maybe splurge on a jumbo-sized dildo and try playing around with that. Ok, I know it's just a rubber toy and not the same as a real live man, but the physical sensations that are the issue in the big-penis-phobia problem are approximately the same. If he doesn't care about you having fun with your toy, try to compare the differences between the toy and the real deal. They aren't significant, IMO. Obviously, you won't run off with the toy, but is he really concerned about losing you to a guy with a bigger wang? I guess just try to let him know that the fact that you might enjoy sex with a guy with above-average equipment does not diminish your attraction to him in any way.
Hope this helps.
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