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Originally posted by JustAskJulie:
It definately sounds like an issue of a guy out for his own fun/ bored with his wife and not really caring if she has fun (and her knowing better than to intrude on his). I've seen this before with couples where they are really only in the lifestyle for one of them.. but rather than that one going off and swinging by themselves as their chances would be slimmer of "hooking up" (for lack of better word), they go as a couple.
Personally, I think that if you are looking for a 3some your best bet is going to be a single. If you are with a couple, your best bet is to either swap or find some way that all 4 can be involved. And a person can still have their threesome fantasy realized with a 4th person involved.. just takes some creativity when coming up with positions 
But the idea of having a group of four and leaving one person out.. that bothers me. Unless they are just a total voyeur who gets off on seeing their partner going at it.. but even at that case I can't imagine they would stay completely uninvolved the entire time.
Julie http://www.swingersboard.com
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FYI Julie...
This was the last post I read, and the last page at that. Until I posted my next post above, only THEN, page 2 showed up (missing about 2-3 posts before then). There were NO other pages or posts shown before that...
Strange...
Cyber
Wife
[This message has been edited by CyberMWCouple (edited 08-31-2001).]