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Originally posted by Gaia&Medi:
Last point and then I will go. Julie asked what the other wife would be doing when we other 3 were together. She would watch and masturbate. I called her over a few times, but she just smiled and waved me off.
... But I did get the impression that he was bored with his own wife and she knew not to intrude on his fun. Gaia and I would play with her, but never with her own husband.. he always just backed off.
The original post in this whole thread was getting a wife to try a MFM 3 some, and I guess we moved onto quite a bit more details of a problem. I am hoping that there are couples that can have fun with this because we do want to do it again and again. Like I said in the earlier post, just having single guys is not the answer, so another couple is our preference. Any Hope?
Medi |
It definately sounds like an issue of a guy out for his own fun/ bored with his wife and not really caring if she has fun (and her knowing better than to intrude on his). I've seen this before with couples where they are really only in the lifestyle for one of them.. but rather than that one going off and swinging by themselves as their chances would be slimmer of "hooking up" (for lack of better word), they go as a couple.
Personally, I think that if you are looking for a 3some your best bet is going to be a single. If you are with a couple, your best bet is to either swap or find some way that all 4 can be involved. And a person can still have their threesome fantasy realized with a 4th person involved.. just takes some creativity when coming up with positions
But the idea of having a group of four and leaving one person out.. that bothers me. Unless they are just a total voyeur who gets off on seeing their partner going at it.. but even at that case I can't imagine they would stay completely uninvolved the entire time.
Julie
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