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Originally posted by CyberMWCouple:
[b] How did Gaia feel about this, when the other hubby asked, if he could have "fun with your wife tonight", instead of having a FMF 3some with his wife included? This would've made me feel uncomfortable, and I would have to decline. Especially since, hubby & I only play TOGETHER, and not separate.
CyberWife |
See.. I think this was a hidden issue. Our playing was together (all 4 in the same room), but we did on occasion split up into different rooms with opposite spouses. It didn't bother me or Gaia at the time it was said. But as time went on it was more evident that when we swung He wanted only to be with Gaia and not his own wife at all. I brought it up in a question once, but he accused me of having a jealousy issue and I let the matter drop.
Gaia was uncomfortable and tried to steer him into a 3'some with his wife. When this happened he just sat back and didn't participate. The other wife seemed to want to, so no I don't think it was him defending her choice at all, as was postulated by Julie above.
You see, these people were our only couple experience at the time, and He came across as some experienced guy who knew all the answers and Gaia and I went along becuase we thought that was how they did things. It wasn't until after we stopped seeing them that I began to think the other wife may have felt threatened or something.
It is hard to explain really. We had lots of great times together, but there was that one time that everything got awkward and nothing quite felt right again afterwards. In hindsight I think he was out for his own desires, but he would put on this attitude like he was the teacher and we had to learn his way or something. He also got a little demeaning after a while and would say little comments that were smug. Like when Gaia and I would cuddle together after swapping, he would leave the room and say "Excuse me! I guess you need to Nest right now. Let me know when you are done"
Last point and then I will go. Julie asked what the other wife would be doing when we other 3 were together. She would watch and masturbate. I called her over a few times, but she just smiled and waved me off.
All in all, we are confused about this. Maybe I am not making the points clear to you all. But I did get the impression that he was bored with his own wife and she knew not to intrude on his fun. Gaia and I would play with her, but never with her own husband.. he always just backed off.
BTW, he did meet up with us for drinks one night without his wife. He wanted to come home with us and when we asked where she was, he told us she was out of town but knew about the get together. We begged off from him that night. I later found out that his wife was in fact just sitting at home watching TV. We never heard from him again, and she ignored our phone messages afterwards.
The original post in this whole thread was getting a wife to try a MFM 3 some, and I guess we moved onto quite a bit more details of a problem. I am hoping that there are couples that can have fun with this because we do want to do it again and again. Like I said in the earlier post, just having single guys is not the answer, so another couple is our preference. Any Hope?
Medi