Hmmm.. Question.. What was the other wife doing while the other 3 of you were playing? Just watching? I can't imagine that would make her very happy. I mean I guess she could really be into that.. but I would think she will feel left out (at least a little). Seems to me like this guy was one of those that was more concerned with his own desires than with fulfilling anything with his wife. (just out for a piece so to speak).
Julie
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