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Originally posted by Gaia&Medi:
.....After the MFM threesome with my wife, I suggested that myself and the other husband do the same for the other wife... He refused though and indicated that he would rather just spend time with my wife instead of his own. That is where my questione lies... do other couples share this feeling? He said something along the lines of "I have her everynight, I would rather have fun with your wife tonight"
.....I got the feeling though that "Gaia" excited him more than his own wife and she didn't like it. Why this was not a problem before or after us I don't know.
Any ideas would be appreciated.
Medi, the Male half of this couple. |
I think that it was very selfish of him to ask this of you & Gaia! And I can see why his wife may have felt some jealousy there. Can you blame her?
Julie is right, he has issues that needs to be worked out, and before they continue any swinging. If ever you're approached by them to "play" again, I would suggest to steer away from that "scenerio". Not until they've ironed out their differences, and new "ground rules" are set, if you know what I mean.
How did Gaia feel about this, when the other hubby asked, if he could have "fun with your wife tonight", instead of having a FMF 3some with his wife included? This would've made me feel uncomfortable, and I would have to decline. Especially since, hubby & I only play TOGETHER, and not separate.
How did YOU feel about his approach?
Cyber
Wife
[This message has been edited by CyberMWCouple (edited 08-29-2001).]