Julie and CyberMWCouple... sorry to be a little vague there. Although the posting time said 1:15 a.m it was really 2:15 a.m. (AST) and I was a little cloudy in my thinking. I am sick right now and couldn't sleep.
To clarify.... Our encounters with this other couple were always Full Swap and no holds barred fun. There were probably 7 or 8 nights together before the MFM situation. After the MFM threesome with my wife, I suggested that myself and the other husband do the same for the other wife... He refused though and indicated that he would rather just spend time with my wife instead of his own. That is where my questione lies... do other couples share this feeling? He said something along the lines of "I have her everynight, I would rather have fun with your wife tonight"
As for the Bi actions of my wife... she will not allow anyone but me go "Downtown" so to speak, rather it was her providing services to the other wife to make up for the lack of attention. Like I said before, "Gaia" is a real du=ynamo in group settings.
Anyhow, the question I had was directed at understanding the other Husband's feelings in this case. I would love to have asked him directly, but we have stopped seeing them. To be honest I think it was jealousy on the other wife's part at being left out. This is why I wanted feedback on other's feelings out there. They had swung for years before us, and continued after we stopped with them. I got the feeling though that "Gaia" excited him more than his own wife and she didn't like it. Why this was not a problem before or after us I don't know.
Any ideas would be appreciated.
Medi, the Male half of this couple. |