HHhhmmm....*Coming from a wife's view*
Yes, communication is a must in ANY relationship, that I can't stress it enough! *lol*
Hubby shared his fantasy of me with another woman, pleasing each other sexually. At first, I was surprised and thought that he was CRAZY! All those questions started running through my mind. Then the "jealousy" thing set in. :-(
Communicating this with my hubby, and researched together, reading stories, chatting with other couples with and without experiences, sharing thoughts and feelings, such as here....
Comfort set in, what use to be unknown to us. It helps if your relationship is strong and secured too.
We finally decided on same room sex, maybe soft swing. We both decided, if one of us don't feel comfortable in whatever going on, we'd STOP.
We both participated in placing our ad, answering responses via emails & ICQ, we did everything together. Discussing our feelings openly the whole way through our new sexual adventures. Patience is a plus also! Lots of understanding. You can't be pushy about this, it has to be upon their own pace and comfort.
Anyway, I hope this helps! It's kinda all put in a nutshell. *lol*
Good luck in sharing your new sexual adventures! |