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Originally Posted by LevKamensky Now you see why there are so many adds for MFM and so few for FMF. The woman wears the pants.
It’s ironic how the married men playing alone is vilified “we have too much integrity to help him cheat”, while the single men are more than welcome to help the women make fools of their husbands. At least make it even. |
EXCUSE ME! I
DO NOT make a fool out of my husband when he watches me with another man, and he
DOES NOT make a fool out of me when I watch him with another woman. We share the experience with each other.
From what I have seen and from all the people that I have talked to FMF ads and those looking for that elusive single female (bi or not) are much more prominent than MFM. It is however much easier to find someone for a MFM threesome therefore more people participate in this.
To the OP....respect and communication are very important in swinging. It can't be about what
I want, it has to be about what
we want. If your husband is not comfortable with the idea of you with another man you have to respect that. You obviously are not comfortable with him and another woman so this should be easy for you to understand.
Talk, talk and then talk some more. Find the boundaries that you are both comfortable with before you start to experiment. Always remember that each other must come first.
Teresa