The Swingers Board - View Single Post - She wants to swing but doesn't want him to play

BiNWAR · 06-24-2005, 09:38 AM

She is human cut her some slack for being one sided....Im sure hubby is thinking that he would like to be with another women, instead of just watching, but is unable to tell her that because he is afraid of hurting her feelings....least she has the balls to admit to it....

As for women wearing the pants and making the decisions who to swing with, maybe some do make all the decisions if thats the case, then the man needs to get with it and put his foot down but again that their choice!....some men like to have a second man join him and his wife (me and my hubby for one) I am NOT making a fool of my hubby, in fact, HE is the one that wanted another man to fuck me.....so if im making a fool of him, i better let him know pretty quick cuz he never lets me do that even out of the bedroom.

I wouldnt suggest swinging right now for them, it doesnt sound like communication is a big factor when it comes to swinging decisions....

06-24-2005, 09:38 AM	#12 (permalink)
BiNWAR Active Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 30 Location: NW Arkansas Status: Married Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:biNWAR	Re: Selfish? She is human cut her some slack for being one sided....Im sure hubby is thinking that he would like to be with another women, instead of just watching, but is unable to tell her that because he is afraid of hurting her feelings....least she has the balls to admit to it.... As for women wearing the pants and making the decisions who to swing with, maybe some do make all the decisions if thats the case, then the man needs to get with it and put his foot down but again that their choice!....some men like to have a second man join him and his wife (me and my hubby for one) I am NOT making a fool of my hubby, in fact, HE is the one that wanted another man to fuck me.....so if im making a fool of him, i better let him know pretty quick cuz he never lets me do that even out of the bedroom. I wouldnt suggest swinging right now for them, it doesnt sound like communication is a big factor when it comes to swinging decisions....