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Old 06-24-2005, 08:27 AM   #10 (permalink)
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Default Re: Selfish?

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Originally Posted by 022054
Here's the deal.....
I want to experiment... I would like myself and my husband with another woman, but I don't want my husband to touch her, only watch. He agrees, he would love to "just watch". But, I also want me, hubby and another man. The husband is strictly aginst this. Any help out there?
Which one of you are you refering to with the title selfish? It sounds like you want to be with another woman, while your husband just watches. Which he is cool with. But it also sounds like you want to be with another man while you're husband again is sort of on the sidelines. It sounds to me that you get the thrills of being with other people while you are limiting you're husband's playmates. I think he has every right to say that he doesn't want you with another man, just like you don't him to be with another woman.
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