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Originally Posted by 022054 Here's the deal.....
I want to experiment... I would like myself and my husband with another woman, but I don't want my husband to touch her, only watch. He agrees, he would love to "just watch". But, I also want me, hubby and another man. The husband is strictly aginst this. Any help out there? |
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Love that word...
experiment!
When I would talk to Fem D about being with another lady (in the distant past) she said the same thing. Didn't want to smell
any-thing about her, etc! Now that time has passed and she hopefully knows now more than ever that this "experimenting" is just for fun and that she'll always have me she definitely has softened her opinion. Hopefully the same thing will happen with you. You won't have near as much fun and you will find out just how much your man is willing to take if you don't...in my humble opinion.
I can't blame your hub for his feelings either, especially in light of your feelings, but you'll both have to grow a bit. Put yourself in someone elses underwear for a minute. How would you feel if someone approached you with a proposition like this? Take my word for it...there is nothing like being comfy enough to do things together.
Didn't mean to come on too strong. I say all this with the most respect for you.
Male D