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Originally posted by Stratecpl:
...when I was greatly concerned about making a good impression. |
And therein lies a major problem in this lifestyle, performing under pressure.
I've never tried Viagra, but would be most curious to now, after hearing and reading so much about it. At 43, I can still perform pretty well, but I'd be kidding myself if I said there's no difference from me at 23. Many men begin a gradual, almost imperceptable decline in their sexual prowess as they enter middle age. It's something to consider when considering swinging with a couple much younger.
I certainly don't want to advocate a wholesale pharmaceutical approach to having sex, but there are various medications out there that have interesting side effects on sexual performance. Some negative, but some not. There are some medications for anxiety that prolong male orgasm, almost to the point of difficuly achieving it. Women suddenly find themselves with a human battering ram, while the guys wonder if their prostate has gone comatose.
I'm certainly sympathetic to women's sexual issues, and how aging affects them. But it's devastating to a man when he realizes he just can't perform at the same level he could in his 20's. Many jokes have made the rounds about Viagra, but I suspect not everyone sees the humor in them. It's great medical science has helped so many with this drug.
Dan