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Originally posted by MiCpl:
Then again there is the chance of making the woman feel bad that perhaps she isn't doing it for you if you don't "cum".. |
The very first time we swung, we went "all the way". Without going into detail, the session became very strained between Janette and the other guy, but she insisted I consumate with his wife. She was on top, and she rode for a good twenty minutes when I noticed her really starting to sweat. I asked her if she was getting tired, and she replied "it's been a long day". She was out of sorts anyway, since I insisted a condom be used (the source of the strained mood). Sensing she wanted it over with, I got on top and finished in a couple of minutes.
It was one of those nights I felt I could've literally gone for hours without cumming, but since then in several sessions with others, (we never swung again with that first couple) it's been a bit of a struggle at times stretching things out. Our long term couple had the same problems at times, the other guy would sometimes cum only two or three minutes after entering Janette. It's difficult to orchestrate a textbook perfect session involving four people, and that's where some understanding and patience has to come in. We've come to the belief that many sessions with the same couple might be the best in bring out the sexual chemistry between everyone involved.
Dan