View Single Post
Old 06-20-2005, 08:43 PM   #4 (permalink)
Mrs Spoomonkey
Disney!All rides are open
 
Mrs Spoomonkey's Avatar
 
Join Date: Mar 2004
Posts: 1,758
Location: Ohio
Status: Married
Swing Lifestyle Name:spoomonkey

Mrs Spoomonkey gives some great advice
Default Re: Well endowed--Yea right!

Quote:
Originally Posted by morgan78
Also.. girls.. how do you handle a guy like this when you are sleeping with him?
Sleeping with him Or are you referring to just the play time you had with this couple. We don't "sleep" with anyone but each other.

Now that said. We did have a similar experience early on in the lifestyle. We never got around to having to tell them we didn't feel there was any chemistry because they had relationship issues and backed out for a while. We also have another couple that we have become friends with and have had a little oral play. We are struggling now because they keep hinting about getting together and taking it further but there wasn't any chemistry between her and Mr Spoo. We unfortunately haven't figured out how to tell them gently since we really want to remain friends.

If you like this couple other than the sex I would suggest trying like we are to express this to them. There just doesn't seem to be a sexual chemistry but we'd like to continue to hang out.

Also, if size does seem to be an important factor for you then you might want to consider changing your ad to express your preferences more clearly.

Mrs Spoomonkey
__________________
Love is friendship set aflame
Mrs Spoomonkey is offline