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Originally Posted by Sex Wonderer WS, in terms of disease, i strongly agree that its better be safe than sorry. but, assuming the health factor is safeguarded, would you guys mind if your wife bears another guy's child? has anyone here face such situation? |
One out of three married women have at least one child that is not their husbands-but most of those men are in denial of it. Actually men who are suspicious are no more likely to have such a child than men that arent'.
The only way really to know is to get your kids paternity tested(it isn't that expensive).
It actually wouldn't surprise me if folks that swing have a lower rate of children that aren't the husband's than the general population.
Personally, I wouldn't want to raise a child that isn't mine unless it were the child of a VERY good friend(say if he died),a relative or possibly someone that had done something really heroic and noble according to my values.
That said, I think swinging is going to change a lot with cheap paternity tests and the emerging of HIV tests that are better than condoms.