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Mrs Spoomonkey · 06-16-2005, 09:22 PM

I have to agree with everyone else. Cheating in the lifestyle is about deception and broken trust. The thing is in the lifestyle we can have sex with who we want (allowing for veto rights). If you sneak to be with someone behind each others back to me that means you feel something for that person more than just having sex with a play partner. So in addition to the broken trust there is the feeling of a lost connection.... a stolen heart of your spouse or SO. I think it would hurt worse for me in our current situation then in a monogamous one.

Mrs Spoomonkey

06-16-2005, 09:22 PM	#24 (permalink)
Mrs Spoomonkey Disney!All rides are open Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 1,755 Location: Ohio Status: Married Swing Lifestyle Name:spoomonkey	Re: What is Cheating When You're a Swinger? I have to agree with everyone else. Cheating in the lifestyle is about deception and broken trust. The thing is in the lifestyle we can have sex with who we want (allowing for veto rights). If you sneak to be with someone behind each others back to me that means you feel something for that person more than just having sex with a play partner. So in addition to the broken trust there is the feeling of a lost connection.... a stolen heart of your spouse or SO. I think it would hurt worse for me in our current situation then in a monogamous one. Mrs Spoomonkey __________________ Love is friendship set aflame