I would also like to note that my hubby had a genital wart and at the time we weren't in this lifestyle. You can pick up the virus from using public washrooms and from people not handwashing after using them. You touch the door knob to leave, virus is on your hands, next time you go to the washroom, virus is on your genitals, KWIM????
They may not have contacted it through sexual contact but they should be notifying everyone that they have had sexual contact with that this has happened.
to them for not doing so