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Originally Posted by intuition897 We had hoped to chat for a while and by 11 we'd know whether we were turning in for the night or if we'd invite him up with us. |
I think this is the key for me. You wanted to have the time to get to know him. There can be a serious difference between what you meet on the internet and what you meet in person. Him getting their right before "lights out" wouldn't work for us either.
You didn't owe him anything and you have to go with your gut. Sometimes, you'll never find out just how right a thing listening to the gut is - but I'm convinced it always is.
Spoomonkey