My bf and I have been discussing this topic quite a lot in the past week and we have come to the conclusion that we would totally be uncomfortable doing things any different. I guess, for both of us, condoms became a habit very early on in our sexual adventures, long before even meeting! After having a teenage pregnancy, it was my mission to always practice safe sex and am happy to say, I have not had another unplanned child.
Condoms for oral just became a practice for me, after constantly hearing about AIDS and unsafe sex... blah blah blah... You will get no disagreement here, that sex and oral are better without protection, for sure! I luv to suck and fu*k and having to change the condoms constantly kind of dampens things but to me, in the long run, it's worth the risk and the men we've had threesomes with were ok with it...but then again they knew what they were getting into beforehand.
My bf, will personally take a bj anyway he can get it, he doesn't care if there are condoms involved and he knows for certain he doesn't want anyone, other than him cuming in my mouth.
So, even after a lot of converstation, and telling him what I've learned here, we both agree that we still want to be 10s. For him, it's painful memories of watching his uncle die that motivate him and for me years of hardship being a teen mom and being very aware of the risks of AIDS. We'll be 1s with each other
