Cute Cpl,
I was not trying to offend but merely to give you the perspective that I personally think most in this lifestyle have
If you do not discuss your practices upfront BEFORE getting naked, then you get in a sexual situation and pull out dental dams (and even condoms) for oral, most people will probably be offended, confused or think you are "fanatics" ............Myself I would not use a condom for oral but also would not do oral to completion in my mouth OR perform if I had open sores! That seems safe enought to me.............I know a lot of other people who probably have intercourse without a condom and think nothing of it. So on the "safety spectrum" you are probably a 10, I am a 6 and many others are 1's. You just need to let potential partners know BEFORE HAND........Myself personally I would probably pass on an encounter if dental dams were required |