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WesternSwing · 06-14-2005, 12:18 AM

We don't need swing partners to be "best friends", but we do like to have some connection with them other than genitals, it just makes the sex better. I guess our litmus test is: we can sleep with them IF we could be friends with them in vanilla life.

We have swapped with couples who we have not seen outside of swinging, and we have probably three couples that are friends, one of them being pretty good friends. In fact we do non-swinging activities with them also.

So I wouldn't say we need friendship to have sex with someone, but there has to be more attraction than just physical. I've had 10's become 5's and 5's become 10's after I get to know them.

Mr. WS

06-14-2005, 12:18 AM	#15 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: Friends VS Just Playmates We don't need swing partners to be "best friends", but we do like to have some connection with them other than genitals, it just makes the sex better. I guess our litmus test is: we can sleep with them IF we could be friends with them in vanilla life. We have swapped with couples who we have not seen outside of swinging, and we have probably three couples that are friends, one of them being pretty good friends. In fact we do non-swinging activities with them also. So I wouldn't say we need friendship to have sex with someone, but there has to be more attraction than just physical. I've had 10's become 5's and 5's become 10's after I get to know them. Mr. WS
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