Cutecouple --
Sorry if you took any offense at what I said, but you took an aggressive tack when it seemed uncalled for. As swingers, we all have our own standards for safe sex, and it's up to each of us to make them clear to potential partners. We once met a couple who were seasoned swingers, but nothing happened because these two insisted NO condoms be used. Seems the other guy just can't perform with them, but they won't have sex unless bareback. Naturally we declined, but my point is they made abundantly clear their stance on the issue. You must as well, and there'll be less chance of a misunderstanding. And you saw this for yourself the other night.
Dan |