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07-31-2001, 12:34 PM

Rap music sucks.
If you like rap music, then you are stupid or retarded.

Lets try it this way....

Un-safe sex is wrong.
If you have unsafe sex, then you are stupid or retarded.

Nobody said these things, but I see posts where people must think that this is what was said. This all goes back to a little thing called, communication.

CuteCouple, There is nothing wrong with what you did except you did not communicate with the people you were going to be swinging with. That's it, no crime, no hassle, no biggie. It happens. You obviously have already decided that you will be more open and up front in the future and that should solve that problem for you. That is why you posted in the first place, correct?

Yes the word 'fanatic' was used, but not in the way you took it. I think you misunderstood how it was being used. Again, shit happens. No broken glass, so lets move on.

We are glad to have you here posting on the board because you have opened a place that we have not gone in exploring this lifestyle. (at least here on the message board) As I am sure you will understand, we are not all always ready to change the way we do things, and change can make some people nervous. That's when we just need to make sure that we are being extra clear in what we are trying to say. No reason to hurt someones feelings by not being more carefull of what we say.

I know that at times, I am guilty myself. We all are. And this post is not directed at you. It's to remind ALL of us.

All that said, Welcome to the Swingers Board. Nice to meet you.

CyberHusband

[This message has been edited by CyberMWCouple (edited 07-31-2001).]

07-31-2001, 12:34 PM	#20 (permalink)
CyberMWCouple Posts: n/a	Rap music sucks. If you like rap music, then you are stupid or retarded. Lets try it this way.... Un-safe sex is wrong. If you have unsafe sex, then you are stupid or retarded. Nobody said these things, but I see posts where people must think that this is what was said. This all goes back to a little thing called, communication. CuteCouple, There is nothing wrong with what you did except you did not communicate with the people you were going to be swinging with. That's it, no crime, no hassle, no biggie. It happens. You obviously have already decided that you will be more open and up front in the future and that should solve that problem for you. That is why you posted in the first place, correct? Yes the word 'fanatic' was used, but not in the way you took it. I think you misunderstood how it was being used. Again, shit happens. No broken glass, so lets move on. We are glad to have you here posting on the board because you have opened a place that we have not gone in exploring this lifestyle. (at least here on the message board) As I am sure you will understand, we are not all always ready to change the way we do things, and change can make some people nervous. That's when we just need to make sure that we are being extra clear in what we are trying to say. No reason to hurt someones feelings by not being more carefull of what we say. I know that at times, I am guilty myself. We all are. And this post is not directed at you. It's to remind ALL of us. All that said, Welcome to the Swingers Board. Nice to meet you. CyberHusband [This message has been edited by CyberMWCouple (edited 07-31-2001).]