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Old 06-13-2005, 02:44 PM   #21 (permalink)
ALilOEverything
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Default Re: What is Cheating When You're a Swinger?

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Originally Posted by incommunicado
Would you be more mad/disappointed then anything else? Would you just shrug it off? Or, would it carry the same betrayel of trust that it would in a more traditional, monogomous relationship, with the same potential repercussions?
Mad, disappointed... yes... and just as gut-wrenching. You can't just shrug it off and yes, it's very much the same betrayel in a monogamous relationship. Cheating's not about sex, it's about trust and the trust that has been broken. It still puts the relationship through turmoil. I've been cheated on in every relationship I've had. Getting over the sex isn't as bad for me, getting over the broken trust and trusting again is the hard part.
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