I'm not condeming anyone here for their choices but it seems I am the one being condemed for mine and I have reviewed the posts. I believe someone called us Fanatical, that does sound condeming and judgemental doesn't it?
Being new to swinging has nothing to do with the way I feel and I can read 1000 posts and I will still feel the same way and btw, I've been reading for awhile, long before I even decided to post. I didn't just have a problem then come running for a site to post my issue!
The advice I did get, I will most certainly take. I will communicate what I think is safe sex very bluntly before anything happens, actually before any meetings to avoid any more embarassment for myself, partner or the other couple.
In addition, this whole "posting" experience has made it known to me that clubs aren't likely the place for myself and my bf with our views on safe sex. I'm glad we know this in advance because our inexperince(sarcastic) would have definately put us in a humiliating situation with our flavoured condoms and dental dams, showing up at a party and wanting all our adventures, oral and sexual to be protected.
Everywhere on this earth people are having unsafe sex, I don't care if you guys do it! You guys seem more upset with the fact that we don't have unsafe oral... |