[ALilOEverything]

I like my playmates to be a casual acquaintence... I might even consider them a friend. I do like to get to know their personality so I'm having sex with the person, and not just using their body as a vehicle for my sexual gradification.

I might only need a few hours to get to know someone well enough to know I would or wouldn't want to be intimate with them. Sometimes I need more time to get to know them better, it just all depends. So I guess I need some level of friendship first but if it gets to be a deeper friendship that will come later.