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Originally Posted by Spoomonkey We wanted "friends first", when we started, and we invested about six months into a couple right off the bat... Before we did anything... Then we did "it"... And it killed the friendship...
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We tend to have the same approach before jumping in the pool. And from the quote above, it seems like a bad idea.
I can see why, but somehow hope it is achievable. It seems to me, and us as we discussed it, that a little "friendship" before the actual play, may better prevent some mishappenings we see exists. There is a large number of reasons why a vanilla friendship goes bad, and sure the same number plus some more would melt a more flavoured one.
Now, as swinging or any other human relation is a do, feel, think, do some more or not process any story is a good lesson. Therefore, if you would like to share, I would like to know what killed your illusions Mr Spoomonkey?
Regards
